11 May 8 Powerful Signs That Show Your Man Is Ready To Settle Down And Get Married To You
Here are 8 powerful signs that indicate that your man is ready to settle down and get married.
1. He is getting tired of going to nightclubs and bars
When a man is ready to settle down, one of the first things that happens is that he will lose interest in going to night clubs, bars, go-go bars, etc. He will start feeling like he is wasting his time hanging out in a meat market. He finds that the club and party scenes do not have the quality of women he wants to date or settle down with.
2. He welcomes discussions about marriage
You have noticed greater acceptance of discussions that are of a serious nature, especially those that deal with where your relationship is heading or conversations about marriage. If he is starting to initiate them, then know that he is in the zone. Most men are less likely to initiate conversations about marriage.
3. He has introduced you to all his friends and family members as his future wife.
If he has started referring you as his wife or wife to be, then you do not need any other clue. He may not have set any wedding dates, but he is ready to walk down that isle.
4. He is serious about his job and his finances
If he seems dedicated to his job or business, doing everything he can to get better at it, you can rest assured to he is preparing for a stable future. Now, it does not mean that single men who are not ready to settle down are not serious about their jobs. The difference lies more in how and what the guy who is ready to settle down spends his money on versus how and what the solo guy does. Single guys purchase things to enhance their ability to seduce the opposite sex (a red sports car), while the guy that is ready to settle down will look at investing his money in more durable assets that appreciate instead of depreciate.
5. He has become very interested in your goals and plans
He often asks you about you future career and personal goals. If you talk about moving on or moving away to some other part of the world, he wants to know whether you see him as part of your grand life-plan. And his eyes light up whenever you tell him that you see him as a big part of your life.
6. He has started making room in his home for your stuff and freely lets you take all his phone calls
If he tells you that a closet in his home is yours to use as you please, or if he creates space in his closet for your stuff, then in his mind you have actually become a part of his future. If he takes a step further and lets you answer his cell or house phone, then he obviously has no other girl he cares about being with for a long time. You are it.
7. He wants to spend a lot of time with you and does not necessarily want to get into your pants
When he starts feeling comfortable with spending a lot of time with you, without scheming to get into your pants, and he is derives joy in talking to you for a long time, then you know he sees you as more than his source of sexual pleasure.
8. The financial value of the gifts he gives you is higher than those he gave you when you started dating
Men typically do not spend a lot of money on women they just want as bed partners. When a man starts spending substantially on gifts he gives you, then you know he perceives you as someone that is very dear to him, and one that he will keep for a long time to come.
By Steve Ubah